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My morning at work began with a co-worker sharing her feelings after her boyfriend of
5 months asking her for money for the fifth time. He is currently out of work, without a car, and living with a family member. In addition, she has given him countless meals, a listening ear, counsel regarding his depression, and her positive outlook on life. My friend struggles though....she believes in giving of the heart but, feels as if there is not mutuality in the relationship. She understands the difficult place he is in but feels he is using her as a bank, counselor, cook, and coach. Can someone ever give too much in a relationship? She asks herself this daily now? I decided my first gift would be a card of appreciation to my co-worker friend. I found a card with a million dollar bills pictured on the front. I explained that I know she has given hundreds of dollars away as the generous spirit that she is....but that she has given me millions with her listening ear, unconditional support, sense of humor, and genuine care. I wanted her to feel gratitude back for the gifts she gives each day. I was thrilled that I had been motiviated to express my gratitude to her for what has actually been years of friendship to me.