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Well, I chose not to go the the museum today and give a tour and instead I am sitting at the Oasis Cafe. I need a little oasis in my life right now!



It is really a friendly, welcoming place and I think I might have to take the drive down here more often.



I guess I have been spending my time helping Cynthia, Allegra's mom, through her transition from married life to single mom-hood. I am trying to pass on the support that was given to me when I first began this journey last… Continue

I had to make a decision this week to meet with Tolga, alone, and talk to or not to. I had been feeling uncomfortable with that idea and finally stepped up and honored my feelings;therby, giving myself permission take a step back.

 

I had been feeling bullied when he would talk about all this divorce stuff and I finally was able to put myself first and tell him. I told him that I would not talk with him if he was going to be a bully and talk AT me and not with me. It was time…

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I need to get back to writing here more often. It makes me feel more connected to myself..



I have been taking the opportunity to re-gift myself to Myself. So many things that I have or own have memories from my marriage attached to them. There is an outfit I wore on my wedding day, furniture bought together, etc. I want to be able to look at these items and not feel sad. SO! I decided to recycle them and attach different memories to them or change the environment around… Continue

Afternoon all!



I am finally sitting down after a long week of cooking and I have finished everything earlier than expected...so nice!



I guess me gift of the week is listening to friends sort out their complicated lives. I sat with sunny for awhile as she went back and forth about what to do. I basically told her that she needed to return to doing the 29gifts program. She started and never finished and now she feels really scattered. By giving and releasing, you open… Continue