Nine words can make a night. (Day Four and into Day Five)

Yesterday I had my first day off after working seven days in a row. I can't tell you how amazing it was to actually stay in my pajamas most of the day and even take a nap mid-morning! The bulk of yesterday was devoted to school work. I'm a bit behind in two of my classes, and school really requires my constant attention in order for it not to pile work in front of me that I can't see over.

I made the decision yesterday not to leave the house one single time, and I succeeded. I stayed at the computer studying away at philosophy, sociology, math (my LEAST favorite), communications, and my senior project. I found myself distracted by the question of my gift for the day a few times, but I never got stressed. This is a notable change, in just three days of giving. I am calmer.

When taking a break late in the afternoon, I decided my gift for the day would be to make a small effort to reach out to people I haven't spoken to in a while. People who at one time or another were a big part of my life but have moved away or simply lost touch.

I sent out the nine word message "Sending positive thoughts your way! Hope you are well!" To about 25 people. Immediately responses started pouring in -- responses that let me know I had made a good choice.

My friend Chris, who lives in New York City: "Thanks darlin. I need them. I woke up crazy sick delirious with fever today."

Old roommate John: "Thanks! I am sick :( "

One of my best friends Alanna: "Thanks! Think about you all the time. Love you lots and lots and miss you!!! XOXO"

Old friend from college Anna: "It has been too long! Glad things are good. :) "

Best friend from high school, Michelle: "Oh thank you! I miss you!"

Mom: "Hey babe! Busy but good!"

Friend from college Krystal: "Aww, thanks sweetie! That made my night!"

And plenty more. So good to reach out to them and then to feel them reach right back. I stay so busy lately that I barely see anyone besides my wife, dog, cat, and co-workers. I'm glad my friends know that I'm still here, loving them.

I woke up this morning, and finished reading Cami's book before I even put my feet on the floor. I'm back at my desk now, working away, but I think I'll take a break later to create a small space for meditation in my study.

I have a math mid-term tonight -- positive energy and prayers are welcome... I've always struggled with the subject.